It’s almost feels embarassing or degrading in a way.

Basically my partner does this quite often. He’s very fast paced and I’m not . I have anxiety also it’s more social anxiety and I have like issues I get over stimulated easily. We were at chipotle today, he was ordering for the kids and was trying to order mine also, but I wanted to try other things so I was trying to tell him I’ll do mine but he wasn’t hearing me and said really loud “ your so awkward in these situations” like he knows I do get social anxiety but I wasn’t being awkward just trying to let him know ID get my food. So it made me feel so weird and embarassed. Then we went to bath and body to get my mom some candles and when I went to pay it had the chip and card inset ready, except I didn’t see it yet because the cashier was still talking to me and I went to pay and my partner said again real loud “ You could have paid like 5 mins ago again your being so awkward”

Idk. It makes me super upset because I’m unaware of how others see me sometimes and I may be awkward without even trying. I do have bad anxiety being out and about with tons of people and he knows it so to say that so loudly just hurts my feelings. Would you guys be bothered or am I over reacting?