Spending Christmas w boyfriend and his family. Scared…

So I usually spend Christmas with my family, but this year my boyfriend and his mom asked me to come. I want to go with him, but I am having second thoughts. Because I’m always with my family but I do want to go. I know I’ll be w his family and won’t go much sight seeing but I’m counting it as a “small trip” just to get out my state and have a little road trip. I know Christmas is the time when you spend it with family I see my family several times a week because it’s usually just me my mom, my sister, and my nephew and that’s who is going to be for Christmas.. it’s a 8 drive w my bf, we are leaving on Friday coming back on Monday, so it’s not like I can split the time.

I was thinking me and my family could do something for New Year’s, but they have a attitude. And keep saying they don’t know but if I was staying here, they would be down basically.

Also, should I go ahead and give them their gifts or wait til I get back that Monday?