So me and my bf been in a relationship for 4 months and it’s been kinda rocky. We said we were gonna start over and been doing good so far. I changed my mind last minute that I wasn’t coming w him for Christmas bc I’ll miss my family too much. I just rather be more confident in the relationship before doing spending holidays w his family. But I feel soo bad. He said he’s not mad and said stop apologizing but I know he’s upset. I asked if we could spend new years together and he basically said “I’ll have to see what I’m doing that’s too far ahead” but said he had no other plans.

Also he has a son and I wanted to avoid the question by his family “have you met the baby”. Bc meeting your distant family before a son who stays 20 mins away I feel I’ll get eyed funny