i am a rape survivor and i still struggle to love my body or let others love it. this guy i've been talking to for a while now he knows about my trauma) he asked me to send him a nude. which is something we have never done or talked about before the most we have done is kiss. i told him no because of my trauma i just wasn't confident and comfortable doing that yet. he got upset and told me that "i gotta get over it because it isn't fair to him" and he said "i wasn't the one who did it to you" i love him i truly do but tonight everything totally changed. i got upset with what he said to me and i voiced that to him and all he said was "don't put the blame on me. and come at me like that goodnight" but all i said was "i know you aren't the one who raped me but that trauma is still inside of me. it just takes time and don't say it isn't fair to you. it isn't fair me, i should love my body but i can't. just please understand that i'm not comfortable with it yet and respect my choices" i'm just so torn am i in the wrong? i thought it was obvious that he's being in the wrong but he's making me feel otherwise.