Hi all,

I think I’m going through some seasonal depression on top of dating a guy for a month and it not working out. I dated this guy and slowly I noticed the trend of communication started to go down. I informed him of this and he stated that he has been busy. Ok, so I give him the benefit of the doubt.. he didn’t text me a “Merry Christmas” text and the day after Christmas he posted on sc that he was out of town (btw, we made plans to do a staycation for the day after Christmas). When I seen that I was hurt bc he could have communicated that he no longer wanted to go, but instead had other plans. I even altered my schedule by not planning a trip for me and my child (I am a single mom) bc I thought that our plans would hold up. I then blocked him on everything bc I feel that he inconvenienced me and my schedule by not communicating.

This is my first time dating since being with my child’s father last year and it just felt good to have a man there to cater to me and take an interest in me that actually seemed to care. Although it was only a month, I opened up to him mentally and emotionally and I allowed him into my personal space by inviting him into my home. He even met my child (I know it was soon). We were not sexually intimate bc I was not ready bc I wanted him to prove to me that he was solid & I just wanted to wait. He expressed wanting to be sexually intimate, but I told him I was not ready and he respected that, which made me like him more. So idk, I guess I’m just hurt at the failure of dating this guy and it not working out.

I do have him on block, but I was thinking in a couple of weeks of reaching out and explaining to him how he made me feel and why I blocked him, or should I just leave it alone?