I’m confused… very confused
My fiancé and I have been engaged for over a year. There’s been this girl that’s been coming around for the first half of our relationship. She was really destructive at first so we both cut her off in February, no hurt feelings, no we didn’t block each other, no we didn’t unfriend each other, we just decided collectively as a group of friends to grow a little bit outside of our comfort zones (I had not known how to put up boundaries until those moments). Long story short, my fiancé moves in with me in February far away from where she was. She announces she’s pregnant (she’s been very infertile and she did not mention using <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> but every time she was around my husband she would say that she’s had many many abortions) she announced her pregnancy in June and my husband and I congratulated her. She invited us to her baby shower, we went to her baby shower and bought her gifts but that’s because we were just in town after visiting my family, I had no hard feelings for her and she had no hard feelings for me. I still have no hard feelings for her. She had her baby today, I don’t know if the due dates correspond or I’m crazy, her due date was on the second, she gave birth on 12/27/2022 if we left in Feb. 2nd 2022 and had no contact with anyone for a very long time, is there a possibility that baby could be his and should I ask for a paternity test? For those asking why I would think he’s cheating on me. She has always been flirtatious even in front of me. She never respected any of the boundaries we both asked her kindly to follow. She even crossed a boundary with me, one time they were working a shift and she jokingly asked if we could kiss in front of my fiancé, of course he shut her down. But then she leans her head on his shoulder and tried interlocking hands with him, and I just found that behavior so odd…
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