Boyfriend

I have a boyfriend and we both don’t want another kid right now seeing as I have a 10 year old and he has 2 year old. I woke up the other morning with sore nipples and hateful as all get out. So I told him I was concerned I was pregnant. He loses his shit tells me I’m trying to trap him. He never wants a kid with me. Starts blaming the fact he doesn’t see his 2 year old often on me and it’s not my fault. I state every day let’s go see his little girl. I just feel so unloved and need to know if I’m over reacting. He wants me to drive out of state to get an abortion if I am. What do I do guys.