I swear I delete this app for 2 days cuz I don’t want to my spouse to see I’m complaining bout him online but I have no friends and I can’t call my mother for every little thing. I moved in with his boyfriend 4 years ago we had a son the same year. He lived in a 2 bedroom apartment, 1 room was for his son he has 5 kids from his first marriage. We moved to a second 2 bedroom a year later his son moved with us, things changed his son moved back home but my boyfriend asked if his preteen daughter could live with us. I was very hesitant his son has a lot of behavioral problems and it wasn’t an easy couple of years with my boyfriend working 60+ hours a week and me being a new mom to my own kid. I asked about getting a 3 bedroom so my son could have his own space and we found a really nice 3 bedroom. I decorated my sons room and it meant a lot to me since I didn’t get a nursery. My step daughter she just turned 11 when she moved with us. Immediately started with problems, talking back. Slamming doors in my face, sneaking out, lying, sending inappropriate pics to boys, sneaking alcohol. Again dad works full time and then some, I work part time so im the one home. My and step daughter were close before she moved in idk what happened but it was a 180 switch in her behavior. She moved back to her moms after a year because her mom works from home and can watch her better. She she stays the occasional weekend. Which she still has a room here full of the same furniture she has when we moved furniture I paid for. And last night she slept in my sons room. My son still co sleeps Iv tried occasionally to put him in his own bed I hate it more than he does, he doesn’t play in his room though. More recently as he’s getting older. So I didn’t say anything bout her sleeping in there. I picked up the kids early instead of waiting for their dad because we have them the next couple of days and I wanted to do some things with my younger step daughter. So my step daughter walked right in and walked straight to my sons room dropped her coat on his things took off her dirty shoes in his room and made herself at home in my sons room. Don’t forget she has a room of her own. So I text my boyfriend like “hey I don’t like this.” He again gives me the whole don’t text him while he’s at work he’ll talk to her when he gets home spiel which he doesn’t talk to her when he gets here. So we sit down to eat and I hear yelling so I get up and step daughter is kicking son out of HIS room because he’s being to loud. So I get my boyfriend and he proceeds to kick my son out of his room. I put my put down like absolute not. And my boyfriend goes off on how selfish I am and how I don’t make his kids feel welcome. When I haven’t done anything to his kids literally picked up them early cuz I bought doughnuts and arts and crafts for them but your not kicking my son out of his room when you have a perfectly good room of your own. Am I wrong?