Would you be upset?

Question

Would you be upset if your boyfriend told you he has a fond memory of a past hookup riding him? In the context of asking you to do it, but saying it’s for your pleasure? I’ve asked numerous times to not bring up past hookups.

Answer

This isn’t even a jealousy issue, it’s a respect issue. It’s super disrespectful of him to bring up an ex like that, obviously we’re all adults and realize that our partners were with people before us. But to bring it up in that context and ask you to do something they did so they can relive that is just rude. I wouldn’t be ok with that, and me and my husband are very open about our pasts. That wouldn’t fly with me though

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“Fond memory” sorry but no boyfriend should be bringing up sex acts by previous partners. That’s weird and rude tbh. Unless y’all are open like that it’s best to assume your not cause very slim amount of females would be okay with this. That’s just disrespectful imo.

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I definitely would be upset you already told him not to bring up the past but he is doing it purposely to make you jealous . Personally I would be upset but I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction of showing him that I care and I would tell him I did similar move with my ex 😉

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I’d be upset. There’s no need to bring it up to you, especially with you asking not to mention previous hook ups - that’s a reasonable request. I feel if he hadn’t mentioned the other person you may have been more open to trying the position? Definitely talk to him about how you feel :)

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I personally wouldn't be upset, I'm a really hard person to make jealous. 
I actually think it's kind of cool how some couples incorporate what they've learned from other partners into their own sex life. But it's totally understandable how that could be a trigger for some people.

Would you be upset?

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