Would this bother you too? Hurt your feelings?

I’m also pregnant so obviously more emotional and hormonal 🤷🏼‍♀️ but whenever we’d see my MIL(she’s my SO’s stepmom as his mom passed) and FIL she would say “I need to come visit you more” directly to my daughter and then repeat to myself and SO to which my SO and I would both say “yes we’d love that and so would she!” Does that happen? No.

But I’d let it kinda roll off my shoulders.

So our family Christmas rolled around and this time felt different…MIL actually told my mom that she(MIL) had noticed that instead of spending time with our daughter she spends more time with her other granddaughter and it’s not fair so she would like to once a week during her time off of work come and visit and of course we said we’d love that and I genuinely looked forward to it and honestly…believed it. She had never admitted such a thing. Here we are weeks after she said that and no visit nor is there even talk of a visit. I don’t even want to reach out and ask at this point because if she truly wanted to, she would. It just hurts. I feel as if she doesn’t care for our daughter or us really.