What would you do

My husband and I got into a massive argument last night. For the past several months he's been pressuring me into sex constantly and I told him to please stop. Well we had sex twice the day before yesterday, once at 430 pm and then later in the night. Last night he started asking me if i would ride him and if i was ready for round 3. I said no actually i would like to take at least a day break, I'm sore and I'm not in the mood anyways. He got mad and said that I don't love him and that i dont find him attractive and that if im not getting it from him then obviously im getting it from someelse. I was like wtf??? We literally did it twice yesterday. He was again that he has to have it at least twice a week. I told him to stop trying to coerce me into sex and that I'm tired of him guilt tripping me and trying to manipulate my feelings into having sex with him. In turned into a huge fight to which i ended up saying you do realize that when i say no and you keep going and don't stop asking and making me feel like a piece of shit for not wanting it, that is sexual coercion and is a technical form of rape. I even showed it to him on the domestic violence webage .org. He said that that is bullshit, he doesn't believe in that, he thinks it's a joke, and that i'm a far leftist femenazi. Well further into the conversation he says that well if you don't have sex with me for 3 months I'm going to cheat on you. And he literally just kept going. He said it's a joke because women can literally just lay there and take it and not do anything. I was so upset because the whole time i was asking him to respect my boundaries of when i say no, i don't want to have sex to please stop asking a thousand times and making me into a bad guy. He said that I'm withholding sex as a weapon to have power over him. We literally have sex at least once a week. I work full-time and we have 2 kids. And we had literally just done it twice in one day. I straight up told him that i feel a mental disconnect with him because he's constantly bashing women and calling me mean names and being overall not nice to be around. He then said he wanted a divorce because i was holding my ground on my boundaries and i said okay fine if you're not going to respect my boundaries as a person then we do not need to be together. He said "ahhh of course the number one predictor of divorce, when the female makes more money than the male" i said dude you're literally the one asking for a divorce. He stepped back a little on his stance and said well sexual coercion can exist in marriages but it needs to be really bad before i would consider it that. Then he took another step back and said I'm willing to not divorce and try to respect your boundaries/wishes but i just want you to know that I'm not going to be happy and it's not going to be good for the intimacy in our marriage.