Ex boyfriend won’t get his stuff out of my house and i found out he’s gay!

Good Morning ladies! Sending love and positive vibes from Ohio!

I just got out of a very manipulative relationship on December Saturday 17th. I was with my bf for 2 years going on 3. I ended up kicking my boyfriend and his “cousin” out of my house at 4-5am which resulted in a small domestic violence arrest. After he was released from jail on that Monday which was then the 19th i waited because i knew the judge put in place a protection order. So i waited until the 26th of December to text him and call him and ask him when he would be coming to get the rest of his things. No response so the very next day i gave the text an exclamation point of the original text. I still got no response so then the 28th came and i told him if he didn’t come by Saturday that then i would be getting rid of his things myself. Still no response.

A couple of hours after he was arrested i talked to his mother and sister who then told me that the guy who had been sleeping on the floor in my spare bedroom is NOT my boyfriends cousin! My bf told me that the guy was his cousin from his fathers side of the family. I lived with my boyfriend before for a month and a half before moved into my house that i currently live in that we live in together. 2 weeks before moved in with my bf he told me that his house was just released from jail and was going to stay with us. I said alright which i had no problem with given it wasn’t my house and it was his family. Fast forward two months later and I’m all moved out of my bfs old place and he has no moved in with me. Problem is that his cousin was here too. His “cousin” helped him move his things in and they finished super late so he spent the night on my couch. Which i had no problem with but that night turned into days! I mentioned it him and he said he won’t be back. He was gone but came back a couple of weeks later. I confronted my bf about it and he basically made me feel like i needed to realize that that was his family who needed a place to stay until they got back on their feet and that you help family when they need it. And i understand that but it was also knew to me because i grew up an orphan so I’m so used to being alone and having nobody to lean on. So i was patient and respectful. Until the day i kicked him out! After i did that and he got arrested i was informed by his mother who I barely ever saw because i work so much and not as family oriented, told me that that guy is NOT his cousin and that she would know because use she was married to my bf father and knows all his family. She tell me that

Her ring camera caught them arguing and what they were arguing about basically says that they are in a romantic/sexual relationship! She said she found out recently from the camera footage and confronted him about it but that he lied too her still! And that’s not all… he also has a child and his ex has been wanting to meet me because she knows I’ve been around her son! But my bf told me that that the kid was his nephew!! So yes i was living with and in a relationship with a toxic, manipulative liar who lied to me and told me this guy who’s been staying with his is his cousin but is secretly his lover! God knows what they were doing in my home when i was gone! now he won’t get his things out and is trying to use me a free storage!

I have contacted his mother and at first she said she would get it but then asked how much stuff he had and i told her a whole uhaul worth and then she changed her mind and said she wasn’t coming to get it because she had no room to put it and told me that he’s most likely can’t afford a uhaul rn and has no where to put it so he’s waiting until he gets his own place but he’s not about to use me as storage! I also found out after talking to his ex that she broke up with him for domestic violence and that she also went through his phone and saw him sending butt pics to guys and flirting with guys online. So she also confirmed what his mother was talking about and she even sent me the ring camera footage!! She told me that the reason he never told me about his son is because A i don’t date men with kids because he was texting her asking him whenever they were going to fuck again and saying he wanted his family back and she was just curving him the whole time so he basically was cheating by texting her just to get shot down! And B because he knows she would’ve asked me if i was okay dating him knowing he’s gay which i would t have been okay with!

Sorry for the book ladies but i just wanted to let you all know what I’ve been going through and get your advice because im trying to move on and i can’t while all his things are here still. He came with the police escort at midnight to get some clothes “to get by” but didn’t take all his things. And i live in a complex that doing want a lot of police visits and they already came twice. Once when i called when he got arrested and second when he came to get his things but didn’t get all of it. And i don’t want him to pop up again whenever he wants and basically cherry picks when he gets his things. So my question is can i just get rid of his things already since i gave him 3 chances to get them and when he finally came he only got a hand full of clothes instead of all of it? I live in Ohio and I’ve looked into it but not sure if I’ll get into legal trouble for getting rid of his things or not but i have text proof that i asked him 3 times and even reached out to his family via phone who said they were not helping him at all. So can i get ride of it and take my chances or should i let him get it when he wants and risk my property manager finding out by him bringing police escorts again?? Please help i want his things out but don’t want to get in trouble later.