Leave the friendship alone or Ask her about it

I need an honest opinion and advice on what you would do.

Long story a girl i was very close with in middle school (10 years ago) came back in my life last year..she saw i got married and had a baby on the way and she reached out and asked if I’m open to lunch..we went for lunch I cant remember why we stopped being friends from the beginning but she said she owed me an apology. I believe she was also lonely at the time but anyways she “thought” she invited me to her birthday dinner…the day of she asked if i was coming i told her I wasn’t invited but I’ll come. I went, got her a gift. We hung out a few times, we’d check on each-other every now and then. She forgot my birthday.. She would ask what my baby needed but never got him nothing. She ended up getting pregnant this year Jan. and we still kept in touch. The day of her shower i told her not to forget my baby gift, of course i got her daughter a gift. Anywho she delivered in September and lately when id hit her up it seems like she not interested in holding a conversation…my husband said to just leave her alone shes not doing anything wrong i just got my feelings too worked up when in reality she really don’t care about me, i told her to let me know when she’s accepting guests so i can see the baby up until now she hasn’t said anything. She ALWAYS watches my story. I’m just over it. We’re both new moms but I feel like i put too much feelings into the “friendship” what do i do? i blocked her from watching my stories. I want the friendship but m not finna beg somebody. Do y’all think she will reach out again?