How would you feel?

Question

My fiancé, he was the one who wanted to get me pregnant and pushed for it for months. I’m also high risk, have cancer, siezures, and a few other things that make me high risk this pregnancy, for a little background. 
Well a few days ago (5) we got into and argument about how he lets the cats destroy everything and doesn’t care (they literally shit on counters tear up our trim and shred curtains) and I said it’s not sanitary or safe for when baby comes so we need to figure something out. 
Anyways he got livid saying that he’s rather I get an abortion then because that’s bs. So I told him that if he would like for me to get an abortion then he doesn’t need to be apart of the pregnancy at all and I will be finding a place for me and baby to go before he gets here. 
Apparently I’m in the wrong and I’m being a bitch for not continuing communication with him (I’m sleeping on the couch and being civil with him just telling him that our pipe broke but other than that not speaking really) 
I don’t know I don’t think it’s something I can forgive him for as he’s still set on me having an abortion. I told him just because reality just hit him doesn’t mean I will kill our child and he is more than welcome to stay out of our sons life 🤷🏻‍♀️
Would you feel similar or am I really over reacting?

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Run don't walk.

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Not overreacting. Even in the heat of an argument, his reaction was immature and irrational. 
Those words are hurtful and something he can never take back.

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Run very very fast! Asap! HUGE red flag! This is disgusting behaviour!!

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Absolutely unsanitary and he should definitely rehome those cats if he isn’t able to train them properly. He’s basically choosing his problematic cats over his own child that he convinced you to have. Fatherhood starts with pregnancy, if he isn’t taking care of you and making your life easier, lose him! He won’t be a good father. You’ll be much better on your own or with someone who can put your needs first.

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You’re definitely not wrong, I’d honestly leave him because that’s a serious red flag. I don’t think any relationship is worth being spoken to like that, especially when you’re carrying his child. If he’s speaking about his own child like that, after he was the one pushing for you to get pregnant then it’s worrying. Your points were completely valid…

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Run! 
Even with your medical condition you knowingly got pregnant and took the risk because you were made to believe that this person loved you so much and wanted part of you to cherish and be happy with. 
Now he wants you to abort the baby he wanted the most over a fight for cats poo? Run please, he’s manipulating you in any way possible, you are a strong woman and you’ll be just fine without him. In these times all you need is support and love, and from what you wrote he doesn’t have either for you.

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This is why I’m single and pregnant. Guys hound you to make a baby for them and then treat you like nothing. It’s insane. I’d rather be by myself and stress free

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