Relationship advice
YES, I HAVE POSTED A LOT OF THIS. It’s really long but I need an advice.
Thank you for the ones that help me, and don’t judge me even tough I have posted a million times about this.
My boyfriend and I had a relationship of one year and few months, but these last few months started really bothering me that we did not see each other very often. He has 26 years, and he just started working, I know that he has to build his name, because he is just starting. I am 23 and I will be finishing school this semester, we both are veterinarians, and I get that we don’t have schedules.
What was bothering me, is that when I had a free period from, 10 am to 4 pm, I went to my boyfriends house, and sometimes he had free periods from 9 am to 3 pm and he just rested, sometimes he did come to see me, but he got used to me going for him.
He has no car, so I know it is easy for me to move everywhere I go, but I also think that if he would really like to see me, he would catch a bus, taxi, etc, to do it.
Even his brother which I have still a friends relationship told me, that is just matter of organization. He should’ve organized his time and come see me. My psychologist, his cousin, and his brother, told me that his love for me is real, but I don’t feel it that way, so I just decided that is time to end the relationship because I don’t like to have a boyfriend and only spend time with him once a week or once every two weeks. (I say my psychologist because we had a therapy session together).
I would really like to get back together with him, in the future, because he was just the greatest guy, but this thing of the time was REALLY BOTHERING ME, I even talked about it with him a few times and nothing ever changed.
What do you think? I am just waiting for him to realize that I was not asking a lot, that I just wanted a little bit of his attention.
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