Venting

So your partner and child’s father goes to work all day, who knows for how long. Well anyways after work he is always on fb videos. All the fucking time. Doesn’t make time or pay much attention to the baby unless you say something. Oh yeah he said what’s the point in having a phone if you don’t use it HA what’s the point of having a wife or child or dog if you ain’t appreciative of what you have instead of watching god damn videos. I just don’t understand how I can make a real life relationship with work out if he’s always on his phone? Someone please help me im about to leave this guy over his phone. And before anyone says anything I’m well aware you guys believe in hanging out and playing on the phone but I guess I’m old school and don’t like it. So I’m entitled to find someone out there who wants to spend time together in real life, not someone whose worried about memories strangers are making like dude. I ask him what he wants to do daily, he says idk what do you want to do. He never has ideas either. He gets mad because he puts the baby to bed. Like dude if I’m going to do everything my damn self I don’t need some dude in my life. He can see the baby on his days off or whatever. It can work. I’m struggling and it’s like he doesn’t give a crap about my mental health at all. I gotta do everything for the baby, keep the house clean, like he gives me no help besides giving me grief about putting the baby to bed. Like come on I give him naps, feed him, clean up, I do a lot during the day. Granted I have a 7 month old who calls the shots. He’s showing me all signs of wanting to be single but he’s too lazy to do all the things I do plus his job. So he obviously don’t want me gone. I’m a good asset to do all the dirty work he don’t want to do. Idc who says what, you cannot spend time with another human being giving all your attention to your damn phone. I don’t get to do anything I really wanna do until like 12 am at night like fuck dude your already sleeping in bed while I’m on the kitchen cleaning and doing the rest of the days bottles. I’m fed up. A dude more concerned about his god damn phone. Like bro we can make videos and send them too, you don’t have to do a damn thing besides walk tf away. Point blank.