My son is 5 years old now and I still get pissed off and upset every time I think about this.

When my son was born, his grandmother (my exs mom) posted his birth announcement before I was even stitched up. He wasn’t even breathing in the pictures, he was still blue. I was looking at the pictures again last night and I realized MY FUCKING VAGINA IS IN THE PICTURE. But at this point the post has been up for 5 years so there’s no point in doing anything about it. It upsets me so fucking much because first of all, I didn’t get to announce my first child’s birth, and because the pictures she posted were pictures that I would NEVER have posted myself. He was straight out, still bloody, still not even breathing, still blue, I hadn’t even pushed the placenta out yet.

After I was stitched up, I was just waiting to be moved to a room so I started scrolling Facebook and she had already posted it and gotten all of her likes and “congrats grandma!!” comments. She’s done so much for my son and I but just that one thing that she stole from me upsets me so fucking much and I’ll probably never forgive her for it. Idk why I never said anything about it, I was 19 and didn’t want to upset anyone even though it was my baby and my delivery. I won’t give anyone else the opportunity to do it again, but I just can not get over it.