This year it will be 5 years since me and my husband got married, the home I came from is loving ,kind and soft spoken, my parents never had a problem growing me up ,I was always kind to everyone, respectful I still am but I think it's getting really out of hand with my inlaws for the past 5 years they judged every thing I did spoke to me harshly, I lost my first son he was born prematurely and didn't make it and I had a miscarriage with my third child, my sister in law told everyone I abortion them and I was lieing of miscarriages, they treated me like a door mat just because I was soft and I didn't lash back , my father in law on the other hand ,we live with him since my husband is the last son ,I tried my best to impress them my parents was sending groceries and stuff to help us until we were stable, I use to carry water and food in my father in laws room ,keep in mind he is blind that's what he says but he can get himself in every part of the house even outside with no problem and no help at all but out of my kindness I use to help him alot .....but he wants me be closer than that and gets angry when I don't yesterday I caught him having a conversation with his church member saying I I'm not a good person at all and I don't tell him when I'm going anywhere and stuff .....he wants me tell him when I'm leaving the house when I come back he wants me hide money for him from my husband I must deliver food to him 3 times a day,he gets angry when I have to go and spend time with My family..he wants to grow my daughter up how he pleases and gets angry when we correcting her . it's just alot more but they just don't like me, now my question is how to I address this as a Christian ?