Name suggestions

Would love some suggestions please, I am currently pregnant and due in a few months. I won't know the gender until birth, already have my girl name picked out. So, looking for suggestions for a boy name, such as first and middle name. Please Open to more girl name suggestions too. We like names that start with Bra or Bry and that would be for first name. ❤️❤️

HELP: zero sex drive @ 21

Background info:- 21 year old female- T2 diabetic, anxiety, depression, and GERD- takes 8 pills a day and- Ozempic weekly- on the depo shotSo lam a housewife and a full time online college student. My husband (21) and I got married in December so we've been married 7 months. He's quite large (7 inches) and very girthy.We waited for marriage so we gave each other our virginities.Sex was difficult at first and then it became fun after about 2 weeks. However about 3 months ago, we started having sex without condoms and he would finish inside me. I started getting yeast infections and pain in my abdomen when we would have sex after about 2 weeks of this. I have had twogynecologist appointments and3 yeast infections in total.Inserting the vaginal creams and trying boric acid suppositories and taking fluconazole in addition to my daily medication was so much mentally. I also visited his family twice during the east infections so that was mentally draining. I have now associated sex with pain and trauma and I get terrified whenever I think about it.Its important to mention that I have been sexually assaulted by my ex. He would touch me inappropriately all the time without my consent. He shoved his finger inside me after pushing me against a wall when I was 15 which is as far as he ever went with me. My brain has blocked most memories out, but always knew that because I didn't learn how to cope with had happened to me, that my body would have an issue with having sex and have trauma responses. I can't identify if this is a trauma response though because my husband has been nothing but sweet, patient, and understanding.I don't get aroused anymore and sex doesn't even cross my mind, but my husband wants sex. He is 100% healthy. I get tired after two flights of stairs and my Illnesses make my joints and bones ache. He could probably climb Mount Everest if he really wanted to. He's made it very clear that he's willing to wait but we have sex maybe once a month now and he hasn't even finished because I can't take the movement. We do have oral sex still about once a week and frequent kissing, but I know he wants more and I want to want more like I used to.I have such a mental block and I don't know how to get over it.How can I overcome my fear when I know pain is inevitable because of his size? How can I enjoy sex fully when I'm scared of another yeast infection? How can we try to conceive in a few months if my doctor's answer to my yeast infections was to wear condoms? 1am so distraught. I have no friends so I have no one to talk to about this.Please help me, whether it's praying for me or sending me an article or sharing your experiences with low libido. I would appreciate anything, thank you.

Infertility and joy...

Hey sweet friends! I am STRUGGLING, my husband and I are walking through infertility. I don’t know how to walk through infertility with joy and hope of Jesus providing a baby for us to love. A few weeks ago at church my pastor talked about disappointment is biblically called “heartsick” because your heart literally aches. I was told almost 10 years ago that I would really struggle to be able to have kiddos and I met my now husband a year ago so he hasn’t had as much time to process and we are both just sad. What are y’all’s advice?

Thoughts?

I started a brand called “Jesus and motherhood” and will soon be starting a blog named Jesus and motherhood - where mama’s like us can get encouraged, find inspiring planners, notebooks, apparel and jewelry and even get advice. If you are interested in being added to the blog’s newsletter or have any thoughts about the designs (I wanted the designs to have representation for all mamas - I am still adding more graphics) please comment! Thank you so much in advance ❤️

Trouble with inlaws

This year it will be 5 years since me and my husband got married, the home I came from is loving ,kind and soft spoken, my parents never had a problem growing me up ,I was always kind to everyone, respectful I still am but I think it's getting really out of hand with my inlaws for the past 5 years they judged every thing I did spoke to me harshly, I lost my first son he was born prematurely and didn't make it and I had a miscarriage with my third child, my sister in law told everyone I abortion them and I was lieing of miscarriages, they treated me like a door mat just because I was soft and I didn't lash back , my father in law on the other hand ,we live with him since my husband is the last son ,I tried my best to impress them my parents was sending groceries and stuff to help us until we were stable, I use to carry water and food in my father in laws room ,keep in mind he is blind that's what he says but he can get himself in every part of the house even outside with no problem and no help at all but out of my kindness I use to help him alot .....but he wants me be closer than that and gets angry when I don't yesterday I caught him having a conversation with his church member saying I I'm not a good person at all and I don't tell him when I'm going anywhere and stuff .....he wants me tell him when I'm leaving the house when I come back he wants me hide money for him from my husband I must deliver food to him 3 times a day,he gets angry when I have to go and spend time with My family..he wants to grow my daughter up how he pleases and gets angry when we correcting her . it's just alot more but they just don't like me, now my question is how to I address this as a Christian ?

Cheap Wedding Dresses

Hello!I am getting married in 2 months and unfortunately my dress doesn’t fit! I am looking for a ace to buy cheap but half decent quality wedding dresses. Does anyone know of anywhere online? Thank you kindly

Life.....

Can I just be pregnant now... I was surrounded by 3 pregos at church, I have 6 friends total who are currently pregnant and really... its just not easy... but then I go back to my teens who still need me

HUSBAND GAVE ME CHLAMYDIA!!!

Alright guys ...... so here’s the deal! One day I was itching super bad, so I chalked it up to being a yeast infection. I’m prone to getting them 🤷🏽‍♀️. So of course i didn’t think anything of it. Then my husband thought it would be a good idea to pull a prank on me, in the middle of us being snowed in might I add .... and tells me that she cheated on me and that we would have to go get tested. 2 hours later he tells me it was a prank and that he was joking. Only then to add that he was feeling some irritation and he believes it to be my yeast infection. Now ... I’m not a trusting woman ... so you know what I did!!??? Went to get tested! And what do you know!!! I got chlamydia!!! When I addressed him about it he denied it ... so I asked, “So where did I get it from??? A ghost!!??” Smh ... I’ve been treated and currently awaiting to get retested.So tell me something everyone ... what would you do in this situation???

Please pray for us ✝️

I could really use some prayers for God to stop any and all of the enemies plans against me and everyone that's on my heart and mind lately. God knows who they are. I pray for all the enemies plans to be destroyed and his binds and bonds to these people and me be broken.I pray we all are set free and torn from his grasp. I pray for God's grace and mercy and his willingness to free use from the enemy if this is his will. I pray for God's army and angels to help us all fight back against Satan. I pray we prosper and succeeded the devil and stomp him under our feet with God's help. I pray everything bad be exposed and burned up on God's furnace and for reconciliation and forgiveness and peace.

My husband and I aren’t doing so well

We are currently having issues with intimacy. He’s suffering from erectile dysfunction and he refuses to see a doctor. He won’t perform oral sex anymore because he thinks it’s a sin. He never kisses me or touches me anymore either. Id never cheat on my husband but this issue is starting to really frustrate me since this issue has been going on for 4 years. I’ve tried praying about it but I feel kind of ashamed to even talk about it with God or anyone else.Thanks for the advice ladies I really appreciate the support. My prayers have been answered my husband and I had a great talk apparently he’s been very stressed with balancing work and family. We had an at home date Friday and we were able to be intimate Friday and last night. He’s acting like the sweet, sensitive man I fell in love with and I’m really praying things continue to go well.

No longer friends with bridal party. Seeing the photos leaves me feeling empty and sad

I got married at 21. I am now 25. I had a total of 6 people in my bridal party, not counting the flower girl and ring bearer. I had 3 bridesmaids and he had 3 groomsmen. It would have been 4 but unfortunately my MOH got terribly ill the night before and was unable to attend. I still talk to her often and shes one of my closest friends. However, aside from my sister, I am no longer friends with my other two bridesmaids and my husband is no longer friends with one of his groomsmen. We didn’t have a falling out or anything like that. I still deeply care about them and want the best for them. But things changed. One of them moved to Texas. She was never good about texting or phone-calls. She had been my friend since about 8th grade. She has always been more of an in-person type of girl. So, naturally, we kind of drifted apart. Occasionally I am able to get ahold of her and we have some nice, short, enjoyable conversations, but that’s it. I’ve only seen her once since she moved and it was only for 30 minutes. She brought me lunch to my work and sat with me while I ate. It had been a surprise visit. She has come down to see some family she still had in the area. But that was over a year ago. I still care for her, and if she were to show up suddenly and want to hang out, I would be totally for it....but I just don’t feel as close to her as I once did. The other had been my friend since 4th grade. Honestly one of my oldest friends. She kind of became a stand in MOH when my other friend was unable to make it. I never expected us to drift apart. But we did. I still love her. I miss her. But, things are different. I got married and moved in with my husband. I got a job and all together just....grew up. We still talk occasionally...very occasionally...and I enjoy the conversations but I haven’t actually hung out with her in like 3 years. We’re the same age but She still lives at home and does whatever her mother tells her and asks for permission to do anything. And I guess I can kind of understand, but when we talk, it comes off as if she’s still mentally 16. Ive tried making plans with her to hang out but every time something comes up last minute. Usually along the lines of having to help her mom with things. This never happened until I got married and I just don’t know if its cause she’s uncomfortable actually hanging out with a married person or if her mother doesn’t want her too... She was even the one to catch the bouquet. We laughed about it and had a nice time. I just...it’s hard. My husband is no longer friends with the one groomsmen despite being childhood friends because we found out he was a terrible degenerate of a person who spread Womens nudes without their knowledge and cheated on just about every relationship he’s ever had. Anyway I chose the people I did and had a small bridal party because I thought these were people who would always be a part of my life. They had already been a part of my life for so long. I miss them. And now I can’t look at the pictures from my wedding. At least the ones with them in it, without feeling a sense of emptiness, loneliness, and sadness. These are photos from the happiest day of my life but I just feel sorrow looking at them. I almost regret even choosing a bridal party but then I feel even sadder. I’m glad they were a part of my special day. I still care about them. And I want the best for them. But I just wish they were still a part of my life. At least in a more permanent sense. Maybe I’m not making any sense. But I needed to vent.

In Need Of A Friend

I’m a 25 (almost 26) year old Christian women married to a wonderful man, for almost 4 years! We’ve been TTC since October 2018. Any other women out there that are in the same situation? I’d love to connect with someone out there who can relate. Our main group of friends has dwindled a bit and there are mostly guys (2 girls left when two couples broke up) and there is one other dating couple who doesn’t come around much, and one married couple who is usually busy and we don’t see them a lot either. I’d love to connect with someone who’s not part of my “circle” to just have a friend to vent to, talk to, or get advice on things, or to pray for each other! If you’re interested let me know! ♥️

Caught my husband jacking off

I’m curious to know how you ladies that are NOT okay with your husband jacking off to porn or naked women deal with them still doing it? I caught my husband for the THIRD time 😣 and he just told me the day before that he hasn’t been doing that anymore.I’m sure this may not seem like a big deal to some but to me, it’s so hurtful 🤧 for some reason. (&& do not come here saying It’s his body, etc.... SO WHAT! I don’t have to accept something that I am not comfortable with!!)

Prayers Needed Please

Could I ask for prayers, to be added to your next prayer you pray? I am pregnant and am going through an incredible storm. Its got me so concerned and nervous for my health and in turn the health of this new life I’ve been blessed with. I am holding on to my faith but some days it feels even smaller than the mustard seed. I can give details to my situation if you’d like to message me, but I need prayers of intercession for God to end this current situation I am in so I can turn my focus to my marriage and my new baby. Thank you and let me know how I can pray for you.

Please pray for me ladies

I’m sure this may sound silly to most of you, but I’m hoping that you will pray that I can find my blankey. My mom bought me my baby blanket while she was still pregnant with me and I have slept with it almost every night for the past 22 years. My husband and I just bought and moved into our new house and unpacked yesterday but it is absolutely nowhere to be found I have went through all of our bedding, every single piece of clothing, dirty and clean, our cars, up and down multiple times and I am absolutely heartbroken. I know it’s a material thing, but I know that the Lord understands how much I love it and what it does for me. It’s not the just blankey, it’s the stories it tells after so long with me. Please pray, and if any of you need prayers please leave your request(s) below and I will pray for you as well. Thank you

Please pray for me ladies

I married my husband in August of this year and things are suddenly so hard for me. My husband says he doesn’t feel like we’re having marriage issues, but I do. He is having anger problems and is being so very mean and disrespectful to me. I am asking God for comfort. I have also had a really bad for almost 24 hours now if you all could say a quick prayer for my head to feel better. Thank you!

How to Have Bible Time with Husbad

My husband and I have been married almost a year and a half. We are in our late 20s, and we haven’t figured out how to spend time reading the Bible together. I’ll read my Bible and he’ll see me reading and he’ll say something like, “I should probably do that.” And sometimes he will, or he’ll ask me what we should read together, and we might try it a few times but usually not consistently. I personally don’t like feeling like it’s my responsibility to remind him to read his bible. What do you and your husband do? Any tips/advice?

Married, 5 years and counting, and 26.3 weeks prego with our #3 after putting our two others down for bed before 8p... Mama's receiving in-home spa from Daddy! 😊🙃😍😍😘😘 What a REAL Husband is like.

Married ladies

Do you or your spouse take off your rings during the night to sleep and the next day do you or did you or spouse ever sometimes forget to put it back on ? How did it make you feel ?

In Need Of a Friend

I’m a 25 (almost 26!) year old Christian women married to a wonderful guy, for almost 4 years! We’ve been TTC since October 2018. Any other women out there that are in the same situation? I’d love to connect with someone out there who can relate. Our main group of friends has dwindled a bit and there are mostly guys (2 girls left when two couples broke up) and there is one other dating couple who doesn’t come around much, and one married couple who is usually busy and we don’t see them a lot either. I’d love to connect with someone who’s not part of my “circle” to just have a friend to vent to, talk to, or get advice on things, or to pray for each other! If you’re interested let me know! ♥️