My mother in law is always getting mad at me. It’s like I can never make her happy, and I am just really sick of her.

She was mad when my oldest was born. Because I told her to come to the hospital at 2 instead of 12. I wanted a few hours with my son who was literally just born. She came to the hospital right after I gave birth and she was such a bitch to me the whole time. Congratulated my husband but would not acknowledge me. Had no problem taking my 2 hour old baby from me this.

She was mad at me all last summer. She wanted my kids to sleep over a lot. They slept over and my youngest sleep schedule was so messed up. She was having a hard time sleeping away from home and was up all night crying. Then the next day she was sleeping all day bc she was tired. Her sleep schedule was off for a few days, then I finally got her back on schedule and my mil wanted her to sleep over again, and I said no. She is only 2 so sleep overs are a big deal for her. She didn’t talk to me for a whole month which was actually kind of nice lol but then my husband told me I had to make up with her so I had to apologize which kind of sucked but I wanted to keep the peace

Anytime my mil wants to do anything with my kids and I say no she gets mad. I always have a valid reason, I am not a controlling person.

So then, the new thing is she’s mad at me because we are going to my moms house for the Super Bowl. We told my mother in law 3 weeks ago and she’s still not talking to me. I actually did reach out a few times because I didn’t know she was mad but finally after I realized she wasn’t speaking to me I figured out she was mad (she gives the silent treatment when she’s mad) . She called my husband today and told him that I am using the kids to hurt her by keeping them away. I was like what the fuck like she is the one not speaking to me for no reason….. and I told my husband to take the kids to see her like why am I the one getting blamed?

Now my husband is telling me I need to fix things with his mom but I am tired of her. She is always getting mad at me and then goes and tells my husband how terrible of a person I am. Then my husband tells me I need to fix it. He wants me to go crawling to her begging for forgiveness and I am not doing it