Is this normal?

Kayla

Hey so my little girl just turned 2 and I personally feel that she is doing well with her milestones. She can song her ABCs, she can count to 40, she can read Cat, and Dog if im lucky, she memorizes and sings the lyrics to songs after listening just a couple times actions included we just started her on numicon and she has memorized the shapes and numbers she knows her shapes. She can run, jump, swat, grab an item when you ask her too. She says full sentences even. I thought this was good but at her milestone check up i told them all this and it was like they ignored me and instead told me that she js behind because she cant use a fork all the time and i need to push her to use jt more as she is not meeting her milestone. I thought i was doing well but i guess not? Is this okay is this normal?