Yesterday my valentines date turned into a hook up and we didn’t have condoms so I was like nah, hand or mouth only. So I was jerking him off and he was making out with me, and at one point he started intimidating me, if that’s the right word? Like he grabbed my hair while we were making out and was like “ride me baby” and I just pulled my head forward and started making out with him again cause I’m not planning to get pregnant. He got a better grip and did it again, I rolled my eyes, pulled forward and just kept doing what I was doing. He grabbed my neck and held me back and I just kept jerking him off, even when my head got cloudy cause man, that felt nice. He gave up on the idea and we kept doing what we were doing And in the end neither of us actually came, we just stopped, which I have no problem with. But I’m proud of myself for standing my ground on it without using the safeword. (Especially since I have a serious problem saying no to people)