Would you end your engagement?

It’s not really about Valentine’s Day, it’s just the lack of effort all around. I love physical touch, skin to skin, I am a romantic; he is not. Im lucky If he initiates even a hug. This is the most unromantic person I’ve ever dated. For Christmas I bought my own gifts with his money and he made me wait until Christmas Day to open them, where I had to pretend like I didn’t know what it was. I like to give useful gifts and since he collects watches and jewelry and leaves them laying around, I bought him a nice masculine jewelry stand and he was very unappreciative. He started complaining that no one had gotten him anything (completely ignoring my gift. His problem is that he likes flashy, designer-end gifts and that’s what he expects every time, from everyone). Last Valentine’s Day, he said he had forgotten what day it was and didn’t get me anything or take me anywhere. Instead he dropped me at home and said he was going to a party (which I’m SURE was valentines themed) with his cousin. And for our anniversary in May, we had dinner plans but he left me to eat dinner by myself. I also went shopping for his birthday and he didn’t even bother to look at what I bought him until now, a month later. He made sure to tell me what he didn’t like. Next week we’re going on a cruise, which I planned everything for, and he said not to worry about this Valentine’s Day because next week HE’S taking ME on a cruise…. ? Like what, I PLANNED THIS myself 😅 Our personalities just don’t seem to be clicking anymore, I don’t see us being compatible. We argue everyday. It seems like everything I do just annoys him. I honestly think we’ve grown apart. I regret leaving my ex. We were extremely compatible and I was SO HAPPY with him.. but I chose history and looks over a very good man and I’ll always regret that. We’ve been together 5 years.. I just expect more.

Yes we’re engaged. He proposed in our bedroom.