Nervous to tell my family

My boyfriend is a recovering drug addict. He is 3 years sober. I didn’t know him when he was actively using drugs. He actually lived in another state.

I met him on a dating app. We clicked on our first date. He told me he is sober and goes to meetings after 3 weeks of dating. I didn’t care about that because I truly liked him. We now live together and have been together for a year and a half.

He is the best bf I have ever had. We have a healthy relationship. He makes me so happy.

I have not told my family yet that he is in recovery. He has met and been around my family 6-7 times since we’ve been together. My family has drank alcohol around him and me and him just do our thing.

I never felt the need to tell them and my bf has never told me that he wants me to tell them. But eventually, I feel like I’m going to have to. During holidays, my family is going to offer him a beer. What if we get married.. and he’s not drinking.

I am scared to tell them because I don’t want them to judge him. Because he did hard drugs. I’ve thought about saying that he had a problem with alcohol instead of drugs. Idk

Any advice ??

(Also, no matter what my family says, I’ll still love him and stay with him. We are in our late 20s and live together. And I can see a future together. I just want my family to respect him and be kind to him)