Beyond frustrated.

So we have 3 vehicles, my car that I drove in high school - my husband uses it to get to wherever he’s meeting guys for his ride to the job site. My mom car, has all the car seats in it. And my husbands pickup truck.

I leave my kids with my mom when I go to work in the afternoons and so I don’t have to shuffle car seats around, I just leave her my car in case she needs to go somewhere and take them, or god forbid there’s an emergency. I always make sure the tank is at least half full when I leave it. If she needs to take the kids somewhere before I’m off, or my husband gets home before me he picks the kids up and brings them home in the mom car. On the weekend unless we are doing a project we drive my car everywhere.

In the mornings before I go to work I drive the mom car and then I drive my husbands truck to work. Well the last few times he’s used it, he’s brought it back to me literally sucking fumes. It had fuel when I parked it after work on Friday, but He used it on Saturday morning and instead of stopping for gas on his way home, he just came home and parked it, so now I’m jumping in it to go to work, after feeding the kids, getting myself ready for work, taking them to grandma, nursing the baby getting her down for her nap, making sure I have all my pumping supplies, I jump in to race to work and the light is already on. Now I have to stop for gas so I don’t strand myself. And he’s done this to me multiple times over the last few weeks!! A week or so ago, he had to take his truck so I was in his car which also was out of gas, I made it to work, worked my shift and then on the way home stopped and filled the tank so he wouldn’t have to stop in the morning. I’ve talked to him about it and he always just says I didn’t know it was out??? How do you not know it’s out of gas?? Today It was so out of gas it was dinging in the driveway!! It’s not like the gas just got up and walked away over the weekend. It makes me feel like I shouldn’t have put gas in his car and just left him screwed in the morning, but I’m just not that kind of person.

I’ve been told I have too high of expectations for other people, but is it honestly too much to expect my husband to put gas in the vehicles after he uses them?? I have such a narrow window of time between getting the kids all settled with grandma and getting myself to work that it’s just too much to also have to worry about putting gas in my car or worse breaking down. I’m just frustrated he doesn’t think ahead.