What the f#*@

I just wanna hear everyones opinion about this.
I'm 19, 20 in June & my boyfriend just turned 22 in oct. we talked about trying to start a family together, got off depo in oct. but recently he's been saying off the wall shit to me. My dog fell in our pond the other day & I was too slow to get her so he's like "what if that was your f@*#ing kid!" & today I was doing something & he said "I hope you don't just sit there when our kid is crying" & blah blah. Like I'm gonna be this horrible mother to my future kid. & I won't take care of it. Then he doesn't understand why I'm  pissed off! How would you ladies feel if the man that is supposed to love & believe in you, keeps saying this to you?!???!