Without him knowing?

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My SO is in the armed forces and I want to have a baby. Am i horrible for stopping my bc without telling him?

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If you can't begin a family with trust and honesty, how will you maintain one with trust and honesty? You've got to think about him too, sit down and talk about it with each other. I'd you can't do that, you aren't ready to have a child together just yet

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I wouldn't recommend it. I don't think your terrible but you could lose your marriage and child's father over it. You may not but it's not really the way I would prefer to bring a child into the world. I wish you the best whatever you choose to do but please think long and hard about it.

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yea dnt do that, ppl dnt like being forced into things and often times it interfers with the relationship he would have with the child, and how would he ever trust u again after that, plz dnt do that, u woukdnt want somone forcing u to have a baby against ur will.

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I would sit down and have a talk to him. I don't think you would want a baby if he's really not ready for one. Unexpected pregnancies can bring families together, or tear them apart. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying he would leave you, I'm just saying the whole surprise I'm pregnant may be shocking if it wasn't discussed prior to  conception. Wishing you a the best! Good Luck!!

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You need to talk to him about it..

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I would talk to him. that's almost like using him.

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Shrugg the worst thing is he will leave you. But at the end are you having the baby for him or you?

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If he continues to think that you are on birth control when you have stopped, then that qualifies as lying and deception. I would not call you horrible for that, but consider what it would do to your relationship to either keep a secret or have him know that you were deceiving him. Neither seems likely to end well.

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I reAlly think you need to have a chat about it,
​Having a baby will change your life so much you want to make sure you are both on the same page and it's snag you both want in life.. It's not really your decision to make on your own

Without him knowing?

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