Hair problems to an extreme.

Lexi
Im really tired of my hair. It goes about to my boobs and the dead ends are short but all over. Plus I feel like it's wirey feeling and each strand is easily felt. Plus when it's dry and natural it is super puffy and frizzy. Can you guys or anyone please tell me steps to take or things to do so tht my hair looks and feels super healthy?! Please in need!!!