Am I out this month? ?

Chelsey • We have two amazing little boys, Trying for our girl :)
I tested @ 10dpo and got a bfn, ive seen TONS of post where women are getting bfps at 9-11 dpo.Would there have been a faint line if i were in fact pregnant? Im having alot of symptoms (full/tender breasts, creamy cm, elevated temps, etc) whats the latest day I can get a bfp?Im scared to test again too soon and be heartbroken :( Af due Friday. TIA