Going to marry a man but I'm in the military?

Is he in the military too? If not, he may not understand what you go through on a daily basis. I married a civilian, and it ended terribly after I came home from deployment. I couldn't connect to him. We divorced, and I'm now married to a soldier. Best decision of my life! 

He can't move with you? I got married to my so at a court house and moved with him on base then on our own off base , before that we talked everyday texted all the time he came and surprised me a few times before I made the move to be with him. There's a lot you can do but most important is communicant with each other .  

Communication is key!

My husbands an mp in the army and we don't live on base but it's still part of ther housing. It's hard not seeing him all day or talking to him but the times we do have together are special. Your fiancé will have to understand that's what's going to come first most of the time

Sometimes if you get sent somewhere and he can't accompany you, it really sucks. The last time that happened, we both bought Xboxes and Skyped and played games together. Marrying my husband was the best decision I've ever made and I think my job in the military really helps out our relationship in terms of stability.  

The biggest thing is trust. Of course we work with a lot of guys & my husband has a huge problem with that. He says he's a guy he knows what they want etc.. But they aren't trying to get with me & I'm not trying to get with them. So that's the hard part in my opinion :/ jealousy/trust