My fiancé and I have been talking about having another baby. We just bought a house. We have a three year old daughter together and he has a seven year old daughter from a previous relationship. I have been in my step daughters life sense she was born. We are doing great right now money and relationship wise. I guess we have stopped trying not to have a baby. I know deep down he really wants a boy. Either way he will be happy. We just both have anxiety because we are not married yet and don't want our families to judge us. Ahhhh lol!!!