Husband troubles part II

I posted yesterday about problems I was having with my husband and I very much appreciated the feedback but it seems talking didn't work. After we talked we had an argument and I told him that I would leave if I was unhappy and he told me I was being selfish. I feel bad complaining because so many women are in abusive relationships and my husband is only mean to me. I'm really scared that if I leave people would judge me for being divorced before the age of 20. Please be honest, would you judge? And if not, do you think anyone could ever love me again? This is such a scary situation for me.