Do I turn my man off during sex?

Question

So me and my bf been dating for right at 2 yrs,were intimate a couple times a month but everytime seems he gets on top and we never do it any other way.everytime I turn him over to get on top and take control he goes limp? Am I turning him off or is he just selfish and had to have it his way?

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I'm sure he's still into it. It's nothing to do with you're not doing your part. Just like some women can only have an orgasm in certain positions. Same with him maybe.

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It seems silly, but what gives men an erection is the amount of blood flow to the penis. If he is moving and essentially ontop, there is more blood flow to that area. If he is laying down, there's less blood flow and he goes limp. Try more fore play before you guys seal the deal ;)

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It's the other way around with my fiancé and I. I think it is more of what feels good for them. Unlike us they have to be physically aroused and stimulated in order to have sex. He probably just knows what he needs to do to get the job done

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My boyfriend says he prefers it when I'm on top because he can feel it more. I truly think it is a matter of what feels best for him. It's different for all men !!

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My so said if I get on top he really can't feel. But if I get on top and bens down it's fine

Do I turn my man off during sex?

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