Need a little help

Lauren • Had mirena removed 23/06/2013 still ttc
I had my coil removed the end of June 2013. Been ttc ever since so around 14 months,typically only around 11-12 as I had 32-35 day cycles. In august I found out I was pregnant however I miscarried at 6 weeks in September. I'm still waiting for my first period to come,the dr says it's normally 4 weeks after you stop bleeding from the miscarriage is this correct? The doctor is going to do ovulation blood testing once my cycle begins again,there also going to do sperm testing on OH. It's been a long long heart wrenching road,I know people try longer & go through worse but I feel there's going to Be no light at the end of the tunnel. Feel like well never have a baby :( I don't want to get obsessed with trying again but I know I will lol!? & I definitely cannot try another year!!!  Thankyou  in advance for any comments & past experience stories welcome too ? baby dust to everyone ttc✨??