So I had sex with a guy I used to talk to. We courted for almost two years and I decided that I wanted to take things a bit farther and so did he. While in the moment when he took his "friend" out it was freaking huge!!!! And honestly kind of terrified me. So I was very moist already from other stimulation  sand when he went to put it in I just felt sharp pains throughout my body, and the crazy thing was that he had only got half of the tip in!!! So he kept trying again and again but it hurt so bad and I was so embaraced. Even after it was over my legs and whole little secret garden down there was hurting soil bad. Why was that??? My friend suggested that maybe after seeing it I got scared and my body was tense, but I was relaxed and really excited until it started to hurt like that. P.S.- my hymen has never been broken which I don't believe I have one. And I hadn't been sexually active for almost two years.