Romanticized idea of partner?

Does anyone else have this romanticized idea about how their partner would be towards them once pregnant? I don't know if it's books, movies, or just my own expectations...but I'm realizing that I hoped he would be extra considerate, or kind. Not that I want him to treat me with kid gloves or cater to me in any way! I guess I was just hoping for compassion for all the changes I'm going through. Is this just me?