Baby Shower

S • Trying for + 1.5 years
So far the only days that work great with my husbands and in-laws schedule are days that are bad for me. They are wanting a coed shower, but are more worried about huddy than me. I am to the point I want to call it quits. Am I being over emotional about it? They either want the weekend after Christmas ( I wil be with my family) or the week before baby is due.