Most of us are married, but why is it that some of us put restrictions on the relationship? I see posts like, he went to lunch with someone I don't like. Ok first of all even tho you are married we have no say in who our other halfs can or cannot see. Did you get married to be able to tell him or her what to do who to see? we all aren't perfect yes, some of us have lied and or our other halfs have, Cheated etc. then why stay and make each other miserable? Then I see so many women Affected by porn. Why? His with you... Whoever is on the screen will never be able to touch you or him. And ultimately he will run to you for sex anyway.