Victims of past domestic violence

Does your experiences still affect you years later. Like with your SO if he gets angry or yells too loudly even if it's not over the line or excessive? How do you deal w/this? 
My husband wasn't even angry & was just being loud bc he's Hispanic & was across the room & went to the kitchen for a drink while still talking to me about nothing serious & he waved his hands around (like Latins do when they speak) and I flinched & got scared. He would NEVER hurt me but I got scared bc of the abuse from my dad. He was very understanding & comforting, but I could tell he was very hurt & upset that I became scared of him for a second. He didn't say it but I could see it. Does this happen to any of you?

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