Doubts or Insecurities?!

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What are your doubts or insecurities with your partner who is either older or younger than you? Here you can share with other couples who have experienced or are experiencing what your going through!
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I would have to say my biggest insecurity(more like a fear) is my man (32) leaving me for a women more his age with her life together and already has children of her own. I really desperately want kids AFTER marriage, but my lover butt is unsure... That's probably my biggest issue. Women more his age and/or right for him.

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I think my biggest issue is my family never accepting the fact that I want to be with this man.. Family is very important and means a lot to me.

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There's 11 years between me and my man, but neither of us even notice it. I don't know whether it's because I'm so mature or he's so immature 😂 At first I couldn't help but think that I wasn't sexy enough for him and I wouldn't turn him on. But now, I have no insecurities around him. He's constantly reminding me how much he loves me and how much I mean to him, therefore I have no doubts that our relationship will last.

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I thought I was the only person but I'm very insecure. I'm 18 and he's 31, he has three kids. 7,5 & 2. I've never been in a relationship with a guy who had kids period, so I don't know how to deal with the baby mama thing. At first when we started dating we kept it a secret so she wouldn't take the kids away, "" if you feel me. I told him he had to let everyone know or I was walking away. So he did. She use to call him every night crying, telling him he was supposed to be happy with her. They were together for almost 10 years, but he lost feelings for her, and after talking to her, I could see why. I want to build a relationship with her but she's like psychotic, like literally has to take like 5 pills a day and threatens to kill herself if he doesn't get back with her. I'm always scared he will leave me for her, or cheat on me with her. I don't think it's normal to feel this way at all.

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I always have doubts that he will want an older woman. He wants a family and is already 28 with a stable job and I'm 21 and a junior in college. He has always told me he will stay me and I've never been untrustworthy of that- but it is honestly a fear of mine to lose such an incredible man.

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My biggest insecurity is that when I am older my husband will want an even younger and prettier wife.

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