Overreacting ?????

Question

So after bein In a relationship for 4 years things kind of become a routine. Is it wrong of me to want my SO to flirt with me, give me hints, lead me on, to make me want to give him head/have sex. Like him randomly asking me... You feel like suckin my dick... Just doesn't do it for me, of course I don't if you ask me like its a chore. Even after we lay down if I try to hint at it, for example tonight I asked if he wanted to watch a movie when we went to bed which kinda translates into im gunna feel you up and initiate sex, like it used to, and he says nah I'm tired I don't really feel like it. So then I'm like damn I was Tryna get some, it's just nice if we flirt with each other and tease each other or slip into it like we're not 60 yrs old, and he just says he's tired cause he woke up early, but we can sleep all day tomorrow. I kinda got offended and he says "well sorry if I didn't jump at the opportunity", ....like something's wrong with me. Of course I take it to heart and get upset and just leave the room. Am I overreacting or should he be more sentimental ? I just wanna feel like we are still dating !!!! Cause after all were not married yet.

Answer

You initiate it. Let him lay down THINKING he gonna get some sleep and grope away. Grab him around the house randomly. Let him sit in his chair watch tv and just hop in his lap cowgirl position.

Idk mine and my husband's sex life is great. Everything in the relationship is 50/50 right so why not sex too. Take control of it.

Answer

I think hinting at things can be just as bad within a marriage as with someone you've just started dating.
​
​Be more forward. Communicate more. Tell him you want to have sex, not that you want to "watch a movie."

Answer

I think this comes with being in a long term relationship my husband and I recently went through the same thing. I took me bringing it to his attention and how unfelt about it to open his eyes I also took the step to initate it on those nights I'm feelin exceptionally frisky. Try to flirt with him to get things going and maybe do something really sexy that he likes start the ball rolling back in that direction and perhaps it'll blow your mind :).    Good luck sweety

Answer

I also would get upset when my husband didn't want to do anything and I did. I think it's normal. For me I felt like I wanted him to need me and he just doesn't and that hurts. Right now I'm newly pregnant and it's not even an option so that issue is on the back burner.

Answer

U just get comfortable with ur SO.maybe thats why he doesnt seem its a problem. If  you wanna role play any of that u get it going and stay in scene til the end. Wear the sexy from back then or even buy something new.. good LUCK (:

Overreacting ?????

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey