Boyfriend probs

So I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years+. He's down in California and I'm up in Washington.

He was a good friend of mine before we got together and him and my bestfriend had a thing before. We became a couple only when I already moved away. I told my family and all my friends about him and how perfect he is to me but he hasn't even told his mom about us. And I can't tell my bestfriend cos he wont let me because "she might get pissed about me dating her ex". (They've been off for 3+ years now and she cheated on him with some a**hole)

Lately, we haven't been talking much and whenever I tell him that I'm sad or that my eyes hurt from crying, he'd just tell me to go to sleep and not try to cheer me up like he used to. He only talks to me (skype) when he needs to get off. And whenever I'd ask him if I could call, he'd say that he was busy.

I love him so much but its hurting me too.