Feminist vs menist

Honestly I think all of this has gone a little out of control. I don't understand why we can't just meet in the middle. I think there are issues on both sides that make good points but other than its just a little ridiculous. Such as the dress code for girls at school I think that isn't right. But for men there's a lot of double standards like women who are wanting to date men 6 foot tall but a man can't prefer a thicker or thinner women. We aren't meant to be treated equal if you haven't  noticed we have different bodies so of course not everything is going to be the same. But each of us get to make our own life decisions and have to follow the same laws so how is that not being treated equal? Comment which side you lean more towards and why.