Any advice - pros and cons - on midwives as opposed to a obgyn/normal delivery? I never thought I'd say this but I'm thinking about the natural route. More natural anyway. Ha. We lost our son at 17 weeks in June and I delivered him without any meds. Now, I'm in no way comparing the pain of labor and delivery at 17 weeks to 40. But it has me a little confident. Cocky maybe. Lol.