I feel like a bad wife :-(

Hubby and I have been TTC for 7 months. This is my fertal week so we have been BDing every night. This morning my OPK was the darkest it's been so far so I think I'll ovulate today or tomorrow. Well he had a death in the family, his dad's aunt. When he came to bed he said he wasn't in the right mindset I told him about the opk and that I had used the pre seed so he tried to BD but was unable to finish. I feel terrible, like I forced him into it but he says not to. Any one gave any input? Am I terrible and selfish?