Is this normal?

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My boyfriend and I have been together a year and he's the first and only person I have ever had sex with. I was with my ex for a year and a half and never had sex with him.  There are months where I can go 2 -3 weeks without having sex and knowing guys there ALWAYS horny! It's not that I don't love my bf and want to have sex I just have no mood to have sex in those 2- 3 weeks.  Does anyone feel this way or is it just bcs with my ex I was so use to not having sex? I think it's just me but I wanted to know if anyone has this same issue of having no feeling or mood to have sex

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I often get like this. I love my husband! He turns me on but I just don't have the energy or want for sex. He is like most men and would even have sex if you woke him at 3am! I often feel guilty but if I'm not in the mood then I won't enjoy and it not the same for your other half of your not enjoying it. It is completely normal and everyone's sex drive is different. X

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I can go a long time without sex, my fiancé thinks it's because I don't love him when truth is I'm just not in the mood. I have my own demons to deal with and sex gets in the way

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I do that too! I can go weeks or months without wanting to have sex. And it has nothing to do with my man either I just don't feel like it.

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I have a low sex drive and my husband could go everyday. We just comprise so that he doesn't feel neglected and I don't feel like sex is a chore.

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I have never been like that.  I can't go a day without it. I'm so incredibly attracted to my man that I can't keep my hands off of him!

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I am the exact same way, we're both too busy with work and too tired at night, so we have no want for it and will go weeks without doing it.

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I get like this all the time. I've been with my fiance for 4 years now and sometimes we'll go almost a month without sex. I guess I just have a low sex drive sometimes. Maybe it's the same for you. I definitely don't think it's abnormal, anyway.

Is this normal?

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