He cheated. How do I get past it?

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A week ago I found out that he cheated on me. I tried to leave but he was balling asking me to come back. This is a man who holds his feelings in, never cries. I went back, he said he would change and he was done with the games. But I freak out often and now I have no idea how I can trust him again. On top of all that I think I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do.

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Kick his ass to the curbm. Once a cheater always a cheater

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When I read this I thought of how a child will do something they know is wrong and when they get caught they only cry because they got caught. If he cheated and only got upset when you found out about it, then he obviously didn't feel bad about cheating and was only crying and upset because he was caught.

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You need to leave and get a pregnancy test done and if you are pregnant then you don't need to go back to him once a cheater always a cheater

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They say once a cheater always a cheater. And once a guy cheats on you he will do it again. If he cheated on someone else it doesnt mean he will do it again but if he cheated on you then he will. Cheating is a sign thay they are looking for something else, something different, and no matter how much they love you they will always look for more and always be willing to cheat no matter what they say

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Coming from a woman that has been cheated on, you don't get past it. He has to prove with actions to you he is your man and only yours. 
I think you guys need to have a hard conversation about why he did it, what needs to change, and where your relationship is going. 
Too many people (myself included) have stayed with their SO because they're comfortable. Comfort is not the same as love. 
I am no longer with the man that cheated on me. I am married now to a man I've been with for going on 6 years, and there is never a moment I doubt his love for me. He treats me like no other man has, gives me respect and privacy. Shares my interests and his own. All the small things he does for me and my daughter stick out, and I couldn't imagine myself without him.

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Counseling if you really want to be able to deal and stay with him and take it day at a time. I am not saying leave by any means but also do not stay just because of a baby. That would be a horrible thing to do to all three of you. But you will not get over it in a day something like this takes a lot of time toove passed as a couple. Good luck on your very hard choice

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It's very difficult to forgive and almost impossible to trust again! And you will always have a shadow over your head!
You have to decide, but you may need to accept the truth that probably nothing will ever change...like many people say: "Once cheater always cheater". 
Move forward, not back and always respect and love yourself! Getting trustworthy and safe support from a reliable network of friends, relatives, and so on, will help you through the difficult transition. Good luck! ?

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At the end of the day, you have to decide based off of what you feel inside. You may forgive him, but you will never forget, and it is a wound that has to heal so it will take time.

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Once a cheater always a cheater is a load of bullshit!! In the beginning of me and my SO's relationship I went away on vacation and he cheated on me with another girl,of course I was heartbroken and I had to rebuild the trust but our relationship is perfect and he treats me like a princess!! It was a honest mistake! I just don't want you to give up on someone who could be much more than what you think!

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Thank you. I love him so much. I wish he could keep it in his pants, but honestly I don't know if he can.

He cheated. How do I get past it?

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