Is it just me?

Naz • Happily married and enjoying my gorgeous daughters
Is it just me but when you really want something it takes so long or just never happens? Saw so many people on this app ttc and they are doing what is suppose to be done like bbt opk having sex on their ovulation days and nothing. Like with my first child we tried for 1 yr and nothing when I decided to say screw it it happened. Whereas with my second it just happened when we won't even thinking about it. Now I do want another baby but I'm so skeptical because if I start really wanting it may just take forever. But how can you not think about something that you want so bad. Baby dust to everyone including myself