Anal??

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I've been with my husband for almost 6 years and married for 4 months. I kinda told him I would try anal with him when we got married lol I know, silly, but now that the time has come I am so nervous about it. He hasn't pressured me at all, but I know it's something he wants to try. Both of us have never done it. I'm nervous that he will like it more than me and then he'll want that more than regular sex. I really don't think I will like it either... I would just be doing it to make him happy... Any input or shared experiences on this would be great..

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I tried it and i LOVE IT
you have to make sure that he goes slow at first and that there is TONS of lube. And please make sure you relax. If you relax and he is gentle then it will feel amazing for both of you.
And he will not like it more than regular sex, anal is a nice change and its something new so he might want it more for the first couple weeks, but you can ask guys who have done both, there is nothing like pussy lol

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I'd say at least try it once :) some people like it,  some don't but you will never know until you try!  I'm not a fan of it lol but what if you do like it and want it often :)) and if you don't and your husband does,  well you're married so he has to respect what you want and do/do not like!

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Honestly, it does nothing for me but I do it every now and then because he likes it. It's infrequent - couple times a year - but kind of a special treat.

It doesn't hurt as bad if you force yourself to relax. Also, make sure you're lubed up we usually do it after we've been having vaginal sex for awhile - then he's got lots of natural lube to work with. (And never go Amal to vaginal!)

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I did it with my bf. He went slow and started out with his fingers. Also lots of lube. Start out small and work your way up. Tell him to go slow until you adjust. I found it to be an odd feeling, but not that bad. I'll try it again and see if I like it more or less. Hope this helped

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@Abby please don't spread incorrect information. Anal sex does not back up anything. You need to poop before hand but poop doesn't just sit there and then the penis pushes it back up. That's not what happens. Please do some research. It is alittle uncomfortable at first but if your partner is not ridiculously big You should be fine with a good amount of lube!

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My bf "jokes" all the time about doing anal. When I know he would really like to do it but I always say nope, not til our wedding night! Lol but I'm joking. We have tried it before. He uses a finger or two first and then tries to stick it in. He only got the tip in and it hurt a lot. It feels like a burning sensation. But it's something you have to go slow at. It's not going to happen in one night. It has to slowly be stretched and get used to. I personally don't have much interest in it so we don't put much effort into it. It freaks me out the thought of it Getting stretched out lol

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A) tons of lube! B) get a really thin plug or dildo, start with a finger and move to the toy and then let him try. C) RELAX! A glass of wine to take the edge off is great. D) Don't orgasm before you try, otherwise all your pelvic muscles will be way too tight. E) Be vocal about what position is or isn't working for you. I personally do best flat on my stomach, I know others who can only take it on their backs.

If you don't like it, maybe try it once more, but after that you'll know if it's for you or not.

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I have not tried it nor would I I know someone who has and she said it hurts really bad when the guy goes in soo I wouldn't if I were you it's also not good for your health you're pretty much backing up the waste

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