Ok, don't judge. I need help. My ex and I dated for about 9 months. I fell for him and he fell for me. He is the only guy that has ever met my father. We had our whole future planned together. We had a nice relationship but it was full of sex. We didn't get the really know each other until after a month of dating. Recently, we got into a huge fight that ended our relationship. He would post pictures of this girl in his town and they would put hearts on each others pictures but he wouldn't do that on mine. When I tried to, he told me not to or he would just delete my comment. Well, about a week after, I met this guy named Brandon. One of the most sweetest guys I've ever met. We got to know each other and ended up falling for one another. There is a problem with Brandon though...he lives in California and I live in Alabama. I absolutely love this boy though, with everything I have. He treats me like I'm his princess. And I can assure you that i have looked him up. He is legit. Everything he has told me about himself is true. I plan on going to see him in 2016. The other problem is that I'm going to college in a nearby city that my ex lives in and he is trying to go to college with me. I do love him but not as much as Brandon. Help.